I put the cart in front of the horse, due to belief and wanting to better myself and please my wife. I purchased the steamy sex ed and it is fabulous, however, we are still at a point that my wife is distant due to an affair that seems to be coming to an end. We do kiss, and lay together but thats all. She agreed to begin slow with a foot massage and see where things could go. Is there any information on giving a relaxing, sensual, arousing, connecting way to give a foot massage to have her want more? I am committed to getting her back and this is a step in the right direction, but want to make it the best damn foot massage she has ever had and wants me to touch her more. Any help would be very appreciated.